I think I need to be hard on myself to avoid slipping backwards. I can read thread after thread, but then lose it all when I approach mi sitch. Thanks for the coping/detachment link. Read it a bit last night. Printed it out today so I can have it handy. Still finding myself mad that W won't call me back. But, that displeasure will be vented before i see/speak to her. All Smiles and PMA. Looking forward to hearing about how your Dream Job begins! I should get to talk about my promo sometime this week or next. Not quite my dream, but a nice step. I mentioned it to W, and she was genuinely excited and happy for me. I have to remember that she is a kind and caring person. She just does not know how to handle R's and is just getting to dig into knowing herself. I can't help her with that. I want to, and that is the old habit I fight every day. Spent 3 hours trying to get my home network running last night. Just like my M, no prgress! LOL I think I've honed in on the problem. Just have to find a solution. This I can fix, I just don't know how yet
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