Nothings changed , your H is feeling a little left out? I think he has told you that he is not 100% gone , perhaps not those words but something like it. Hes a bit lost I would guess and your strenght has him concerned that perhaps you will cut his lifeline before hes ready. I see the time we give our WAS's by stepping back and supporting but leaving them too what they are doing as a gift and a selfless one at that. I think the WAS sees this and while they wont acknowledge it I am sure they appreciate it . I also think they panic if they think we may be thinking of terminating the gift of time . Particularly where the WAS is not pushing for a firm end to the R .