Yesturday my H in our IMng tells me i have to sign & notarize some papers for the house 7 he hsa to fed ex back by wednesday morning. H says he will coem by his regular Tuesday night to drop them off. I told him how am I suppose to get them notarized at & at night when u get home???? UH DUH....(h thinking....)I told him to meet me last night at the girls ballet. Can u beleive this man?? He complains he has to GO OUT OF HIS WAY & get into traffic!!!! I told him HELLO this is important & I cant make miracles & have it signed in one night for you. H NAGGED & WHINNED so much b/c he he said he ought to have me go all the way downtown (other side fr my work) since HE is the one who had to get the loan & not me so I will pick up the form from his work. Finally, I said FINE! I am tired of your complaining. I dont want ANOTHER notch on my belt of soemthing ELSE 4 u to whine about, I will go to your work tomorrow when I get there b/c I will have to get up at the crack of dawn to get off early. After all of that anxiety (drama can u beleive he said - no. I want to see my girls 2nite I will see u there. I told him what timethey will get out & I thought he would be late, "oh no I will make it by 6:20 (it ends at 6:30). Hmmm......the girsl wanted to eata snack after the class so we went to a table underneath a tree since ther is no eating in the academy. H calls(he is late by then). I had not heard the phone ring the two other times he called. H- I have been caling 4 the past half hour (LIE). ME- no u haven't as I knew I was on the phone half hour ago. H asked y we were at the table, so far away from the academy (yeah right 5 min walking distance) & what was I hiding, y couldnt they eat at my car. H was pissy made a comment about how the girls prolly have met my BF- Jared their new stepfather. I ignored his comments. THEN..... as we were walkign back and I was rushing the girls (had a tons of stuff to do,homework, etc) H was acting like he was going run over me!!! He really got close to my feet....anyhooo He said yeah your mother is in a rush b/c her BF.

You see usually its him who is in a rush (O/W timetable), but the differnce is I am use to it. I dont get angry about it and lash out. He was truly behaving like a little kid.

My mother like me doesn't understand it. She asked me why is it he will not file the D papers. She said he like a dog, if he does not like his food he will not eat it, but will not let other dogs eat it also!! In otherwords he will not coem back,but does not want me w/ another man also!