I have being hearing about that course Retrouville, and have found out there is a weekend course here in September, so I am going to forward the info to H and see what he says.
I am sure I know the answer, but it can't hurt to try.
H still doesn't seem to have email OW or set up c, but I am not suprised by either of these things.

Me - 44
H - 44
M - 19yrs
together - 23yrs
D16
S8
EA/PA - Bomb Oct20/06 Jan 8/07 Feb 01/07 Jul 15/07
H still @ home
Recovered!

"Do or do not, there is no try" Yoda