Am I better off?

[lester]

I know what you're saying. But at the same time she'll say stuff like she's redoubling at work to get over feelings for him. Basically, yes, I know it's a little nuts.. but isn't a little nuts /heads in the clouds how they all act?

The reason it gives me hope is that things like that help me to detach and want to do my own thing. Ain't that what DB'ing is essentially? I mean until they decide to come back. I'm not stupid either, and she hasn't said what the outcome of their chat has been, but she was somewhat upbeat. My guess, is that his wife probably wants to work on it but he's ambivalent, so she's happy because her triangle's still in place in theory. I don't know.. like I said she didn't mention it at all just talked about work, golf, friends, etc.