I agree, I think that would be hard to actually go through the whole D process and then have her all of a sudden change her mind and expect you to come running. HOWEVER, like w/ my H cheating, and numerous times I might add, I always said "you cheat, you're gone" and I'm still here. You never know how you will truly react or feel in a sitch until it really happens.


Me: 38
H: 35
S4, S5, S10
Bomb 01/07
Wanted D - nothing would change his mind
Numerous A's prior to D bomb; EA prior/during D bomb
Piecing 04/07
Deployed for a year 05/07
Still Piecing 2010
M 11 yrs 05/10