You made me laugh, thinking about the phrase "Same sh*t, different stink".
I keep telling other people on this board, that regardless of the outcome it will be a positive one, with or without our S's. I truly feel this way. I have learnt a lot about myself over the last 10 months. Things I wouldn't have learnt if it wasn't for my drama.
I have a gut feeling that when this is all over, she will want to return. She mentioned a few months back "Sometimes it takes a divorce to bring two people back together". When I heard this, my DBing went out the window. I pretty much told her that once I go through the divorce, I will pretty much close that chapter of my life with her forever.
