It sounds like your husband is too scared to be around you or something. I reckon he is acting the same as my wife. The more they are with us the more they regret what they have done. Out of sight out of mind. And with bringng OW with him, she is his security blanket.
I really do pity them. They will eventually hit rock bottom, and when they do, we will have moved on to better more fullfilling lives.
