Darn!! I was so hoping you would get through the court stuff before he started to revise his position.
Do you have any idea about the liklihood of no contact being enforced? If the chances are slim to none, as they are in most any case, maybe you could trade the no contact clause for maintaining the same support.
But, don't give him a heads up to any of your plans. Keep them for mediation. Whatever happens next week, try to get something signed. He will just keep getting LESS generous. The sooner things are resolved, the better for you.
