Correction: Running: I will paraphrase what I told hope (sometimes known as hopeless11). If you are waiting for me (and others) to tell you that you are not "a catch," please get comfortable. It may be a while...
Hey !!! You guys and gals hungry? Stop on over to the Bobelina House. I made a bunch of hummus, salsa and Wisconsin mac&cheese. Plenty to go around. (Can somebody bring a bottle of wine?) BoB
Thanks Mark. You are another guy that has proved my husband is a complete idiot. A lot of days, I wonder what is wrong with me, but I really think it has come down to his pride and he just isn't man enough to suck it up, so as of next Tuesday, I will officially be "single". Then, it's on to my new life.
M:28, D finalized: 8/28/07 Current Thread
"When life gives you a hundred reasons to cry, show life that you have a thousand reasons to smile."
Hopeless...I am with you, I am 20 days away from being single...these days we are going thru right now are more than difficult ( until you are where we are at, it is hard to understand...you can read, talk, listen, pray, but until you get to these last hours it is a whole new set of emotions )... I am attempting to embrace all of it and not run, yet my heart is so anxious right now, I guess hoping for that last min. return of our S or something, I can not really put a finger on it. The reality and the weight of it all is just sitting there in front of us. I want to be positive and all the good stuff that goes with it, yet there seems to be a heavy fog setting in.
I am holding on that after this fire, all the junk will be burnt away and our lives will be more pure..."Real Gold Fears No Fire"...I am trying to take inventory of all the positive aspects of my sit and build on that and walk forward.
Hang in there ...just heard a great song by Big Daddy Weave...the words hit home for me... "Every Time I Breathe" I am sure all of heaven’s heard me cry_As I tell You all the reasons why_This life is just too hard__But day by day_Without fail_I’m finding everything I need_And everything that You are_To me__Chorus:_Every time I breathe You seem a little bit closer_I never want to leave_I want to stay in Your warm embrace_Oh basking in the glory shining from Your face_And every time I get another glimpse of Your heart_I realize it’s true_That You are so marvelous God_And I am so in love with You__Now how could I after knowing One so great _Respond to You in any way_That’s less than all I have to give_But by Your grace I want to love You not with what _I say_But everyday_In a way that my life is lived__Chorus:__Wrapped in Your mercy I want to live and never leave_I am held by how humble_Yet overwhelmed by Your majesty_Captured by grace and now I’m finding I am free_You are marvelous God_And knowing You is everything__
Thats all...SorryDog
Me 47 W 42 D 20 S 18 D 13 S 11 Married 17 yrs Asked for D Mothers Day PA found out on 6/14/07 W filed D 7/3/07 D court date 9/10/07 W moved out 7/17/07
Are we allowed to post words to tunes here? Is this some kinda copyright infingement? Even though you found the words on many a website with no warnings? Mr. & Mrs. Bobelinas song: (Ouch !!! ) ------ Tower of Strength - Mission UK ------------ You raise me up When I'm on the floor You see me through When I'm lonely and scared And I'm feeling true to the written word And you're true to me And still I need more It would tear me apart To feel no one ever cared For me For me For me You are a tower of strength to me
You stand firm and proud When the wind blows in your face And when the sun shines in your eyes You just turn your head away To me To me To me You are a tower of strength to me
You rescue me You are my faith My hope My liberty And when there is darkness all around You shine bright for me You are the guiding light
To me To me To me You are a tower of strength to me
You are all passion and heart When I lay in your embrace And heaven is in your kiss Salvation lies just a touch away
Thats stinking awesome...I listened to a bit of it on itunes...powerful song !... a bit of U2 influence, youtube gets in done... ...great ? about lyric stuff...thats all SorryDog
Last edited by SorryDog; 08/21/0704:59 PM.
Me 47 W 42 D 20 S 18 D 13 S 11 Married 17 yrs Asked for D Mothers Day PA found out on 6/14/07 W filed D 7/3/07 D court date 9/10/07 W moved out 7/17/07
Thanks Mark. You are another guy that has proved my husband is a complete idiot. A lot of days, I wonder what is wrong with me, but I really think it has come down to his pride and he just isn't man enough to suck it up, so as of next Tuesday, I will officially be "single". Then, it's on to my new life.
Hopeless11, Nothing is wrong with you... you are perfect in every way (and it's our imperfections that make us even more perfect!). But I think we live in a time where people have skewed values (they don't always recognize what's valuable... i.e. history, a long friendship, a person who can always be counted on, memories, etc..). And selfish behavior is very acceptable and even encouraged. Perhaps we really are living is a progressively more "throwaway society." Where not only do we replace and throwaway possessions much more easily and more quickly, but relationships as well....
Just make sure, when you do go out there to your new life, you spend a lot of time working on yourself. Don't jump into any relationships quickly, take time... and when you do finally meet someone you want to take a chance with... make sure it's someone healthy, doesn't have too much baggage, and shares similar values.
You are very young. You have a lot of life ahead of you. Regardless of where the road leads, and the bumps in it, make it a great one...
There is no arriving, ever. It is all a continual becoming.
