hey there, as much as you'd like to be informed about who he is talking/not talking snooping will hurt your chances big time if he ever finds out (my h flipped when he learned i broke into his email, and now has changed his password online so I don't check his calls)
For your own sanity, don't check anymore, trust me, I've btdt with no good results. YOu want his loyalty and true commitment? it has to come with him without you convincing him of it.
Be not afraid...I will repay you for the years the locusts have eaten Joel2
30something 2kids survivor of S, MLC, A, D I have peace in my heart, at last.
