Hopefully I didn't just screw up, she called and asked if I would like to go to the movies tonight with them. I turned her down, but used a good and valid excuse to get out of it. I just went with the gut instinct to not move along to quick.
Good. You're doing real good! Don't want to be too available. She wants you but you have to keep DBing! You are more than a booty call!
I wish I was a booty call !!!! At what point can I claim I am a virgin ????
M 41 W 33 S8 S17 Bomb 3/11/07 S 3/28/07 New beginning? 8/31/07
Ummm, it has been 7 months over here and he sleeps at OW every night sans kids or responsiblities. I have two little ones watching Mickey Mouse Clubhouse in my bed right now. How romantic. Actually I would rather have two babes in my bed that have my DNA than have his life any day!
Me:38 H:39 MLC M:10 R:23 years D6 S3 Bomb: Easter, 2007 "Every day may not be good, but there's something good in every day."
Don't get too upset about that one little thing. You are doing great and she will get over being faced with the truth. Finances are a really sore subject in my house too.
All the othe stuff sounded good. She'll like her wounds for a little while, but she'll be back. Buy her an ice cream sundae. It always makes me happy.
It is hard always walking on eggshells about money. Having two homes is just one of the many awful parts of Divorce and separation. Remember to agree with her if possible and do not expect anything in return.
Me:38 H:39 MLC M:10 R:23 years D6 S3 Bomb: Easter, 2007 "Every day may not be good, but there's something good in every day."
Yep, it is hard walking on them eggshells. As for the money, I wasn't even mad about it, but actually thought it was time she knew that I actually kept some sort of track. If I was mad or worried about it, I would of just turned her card off from being able to access it.
M 41 W 33 S8 S17 Bomb 3/11/07 S 3/28/07 New beginning? 8/31/07
Think mine would have to be up near the top, lets see....
1990... Hired her for her first job when she was 16 She babysat for first wife and I Didn't see her from when she was 18-20 She somehow new she would be my wife one day Woke up one morning and she was there and never left
Before we were ever engaged, she had known all about my first marriage and how at that time said I would never really trust again and thought I would never get married. Convinced me that people do marry for life and that she would never hurt me, leave me if we were to ever get married.
2007.... WOW, never planned this, lol
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M 41 W 33 S8 S17 Bomb 3/11/07 S 3/28/07 New beginning? 8/31/07
