I have said all along, it is NOT about sex. It is about the DESIRE for sex. And the reason why is because the DESIRE for sex impacts a persons personality in a huge way. I have said it before, when my wife went from HD to LD, it was like a complete transformation of her personality. I have given lists before of what I want from her, and most of what was on those lists is NOT sex. How about something as simple as playfulness. I have said that I wanted her playfulness back. When HD, she was playful, as a LD, she has NEVER been playful like that. How about Flirtation? Flirting can be real hard when you have to THINK about it? Does this make any better sense?
