In the past few months I have come to accept that my husband is not my twin, and it's OK for us to not see things the same way. But I have to fight a gut instinct to tell him that he's wrong.
LOL - yes...I hear you. That's where the "surprise and being disturbed" comes in during these conversations. I like what she says here, because her point is rather than point out where they are wrong (which is so easy sometimes) just notice your surprise and realize what you can about what you believe to be true...
But sometimes they are SO wrong!
Me: 34 H: 39 M: 7 yrs H A 12/05-8/07
If what you say surprises me, I must have been assuming something else was true. - M. Wheatley
