Hope -
I grieve for you and your situation. I am genuinely sad that you are in this position... the very same position that I will be in in six months. Our needy, depressed spouses... seeking out from others what they could easily have at home...

Regarding my situation.... when it's all over, after I process what has occurred, after I reach the point that I begin dating again, I hope that I can find a woman as attractive, articulate, and faithful as you are. You are indeed "a catch," and I have no doubt that both of us will land on our feet with the right person for each of us.

We will find our "match." They are out there, and we will be delighted to have them in our lives... And they will not hurt us. And they will not disappoint us. Ever.