How much stronger, exactly? Faith, you are dealing with a really ugly situation in the best way you know how. And you are doing really well. You aren't really kicking yourself for expressing your disapproval with a man that spent your date night with another woman, are you? It's ok to express that stuff. I mean I get the crying and anger and how that may not have been the best way to communicate your disapproval, but it happens to the best of us. If it's in a book that outlines what to expect after an affair, then I would say your reaction was pretty normal. Don't beat yourself up about that.
You recognized that you didn't handle that stich the best way you think you could have, but now is the best time to plan how you are going to handle that if it happens again. What will that interaction look like?
hang in there Faith - you're doing fine!!!
Em
Me: 34 H: 39 M: 7 yrs H A 12/05-8/07
If what you say surprises me, I must have been assuming something else was true. - M. Wheatley
