YOU are your own measure of success now. Isn't that a kicker?
Oh, I think you are right except for the fact that I haven't set any standards for myself or closely examined my preferences which is why I am just sort of floating along in a state of baffled babbling curiosity at the moment. Which really isn't a bad place to be as long as you aren't too picky of an eater to appreciate a random buffet (probably closely related to a movable feast, right?).
"Tell me, what is it you plan to do with your one wild and precious life?" - Mary Oliver