Hey Faith - I saw your post to me on LWB - to find the article do the following: (I would link here, but don't know how )
1) go to: http://www.beyondaffairs.com 2) on the home page, click on "All aspects of recovering from an affair" (it's the 3rd "bullet" down) 3) Choose How Do I Get My Spouse To Break All Ties...(second one down)
Hope this helps...
I'll catch up on your sitch and post...
Me: 34 H: 39 M: 7 yrs H A 12/05-8/07
If what you say surprises me, I must have been assuming something else was true. - M. Wheatley