The problem that I have is it seems like this is another attempt by my W to control things, then again I could be seeing this through the lens of a LBS glasses. I don't want to make decisions that are venge full but at the sametime I do not want to cater to my STBXW. I really do not see my nanny picking her up from school once a week as a big problem, but, if this is a true concern of my W's then I don't want to be a jerk about it either. She is the mother of my girls and I would not want to totally disregard a concern of hers, like I would not want her to disregard one of mine. I think with me saying that I don't see a problem with her being picked up once a week from school and I am willing to change it to the bus stop if a problem arises is hopefully non-confrontational.
Yes...I agree with you about my W's C. Ewwww is right....
