how do you no when you have reached the point of no return ? ...is it now ?... is it the day of the divorce ?... I can not get a clear handle on when that is going to be...
You have reached the point of no return when you give up. It is that simple! I will just say that most people fail to reach their goals because they give up because it is too hard (whatever the goal).
I was very close to giving up last week when I figured out that my W is stealing and lying on top of cheating. Then I contemplated the reasons that I was standing for my M and realized that they all still hold. This is a test of us and our ability to love even in the face of great pain. If you believe in the vows you took,esp. "in good times and in bad", how can you walk away from your S in this, the worst of times?
SD (not SorryDog, but SuperDad)
Me 41 W 41 Kids: S9 S7 Married 16 years Bomb dropped 2/2/07 Still living together! current thread
