Trudging up hill

[ediemarie]

4) Oh man, I know!!! I haven't read that book, but I know what you mean about not knowing how to show your love. H feels I abandoned him, by not supporting him this year. I have no idea how I did this, but I realized when I tried to help him, it wasn't the help he was needing. So he sees it as not helping him at all.

I know that all too well! My h told me that he didn't feel respected in our marriage, but failed to elaborate on exactly what that meant. He didn't have too many concrete examples to offer, it's just a feeling he feels. It is difficult to fix behavior when there aren't any examples or instances in which you exhibited said behavior. So frustrating and of course there's always the temptation to think that he's speaking out of his ass because of the state of his A. Don't know what else to do but wait and see if he comes around.

Thanks for stopping by LWB! I appreciate your thoughts...

45 minutes...who am i kidding??!!