well I picked my son up today and dropped him off at W's apt. I got dressed up nice before I went. I didn't want to intrude so I just kind of said hi and turned to walk away, she said hi and then closed the door.
I called a little later to see if there was something wrong,and she said no. I said you seem a little short, and she said you where the one who walked away.
I said I was just trying to respect her space, and she said okay. and that was it.
I called her back a little later, because I got the feeling that she wanted to talk but wanted me to initiate it, so when I called I asked if I was bothering her by calling her back and she said no.
our hamster just died and I said that I wanted to consult with her before buying a new one,since our son was sad about it. She said that it would be a good idea to get him a new one. that is a 180 for me normally I would've just went and bought it without asking her opinion.
then I go on to tell her about my day and she seemed very interested and was asking questions.
so my PMA was good but here is where it goes sour.
I was at the book store when I was talking to her and I asked her if she wanted anything while I was there, she paused and said that someone told her that the maintenance man was a good book.
I said okay I will get it for you. I had no idea what the book was about. Well I get the book and it is about a gigolo who sleeps with married women. on the front cover it says, "it's midnight do you know where your woman is"
My goodness how insensitive can you freaking be.
whats up with this, is she doing that on purpose or did she not know. Why does she want to read about some man who sleeps with married woman, is this her fantasy and is that why she played it out?
I called her back and said I just want to make sure I got you the right book, I said is it about a man who sleeps with married woman. She said yeah, and I could tell it was kind of uncomfortable, I said okay I got it for you, she said thanks and then got off.
any advice would be great, also if someone could advise on my previous post about what to do tomorrow for our anniversary.
