I think... CeMar would like it if Mrs. CeMar kissed him, and a good kiss... because she wanted to.
Mrs. CeMar has not kissed CeMar, because she wanted to kiss him, in a very long time. Swap 'kiss' out with IC, or blow jobs, or swing from the chandeliers...
I think CeMar thinks Mrs. CeMar is BEING Mrs. CeMar, being in his life, being a mother to his children... because of her religious beliefs... not because of any feeling she has toward CeMar.
I think CeMar is jealous of God, and the importance He holds in her life. It trumps CeMar's own importance/value... in CeMar's eyes. It probably feels that way, too.
And, given CeMar's own religious convictions, it would be pretty dam self-serving to ask that Mrs. CeMar to stop putting God first, wouldn't it? And that gives Mrs. CeMar a whole lot of power, doesn't it?
If anyone understands these religious convictions... and where they are in their beliefs/convictions... it truly IS a no win situation.
Beyond my own opinions on any of this, I can see where CeMar feels hopeless and trapped, and like he is in a Catch 22.
He really is... given that he cannot give himself any way out.
