No two sitches are alike. Now the whip cream would work for me. Heck just a night away with just my wife and I would work for me. But it may or may not work with Your H. What happens is try something if it does not work try something else. Knowing that your husband likes his ego stroked is good. But you can't keep stroking it the same way. I had a sister in law in my first marriage that would always do something hurt full. She would apologize and then do something again. After awhile the apologies meant nothing. Maybe you need to find a new way to "stroke his ego" You are taking good care of yourself and looking hot when ever you guy are together that is a good start. I think this night out at the wedding is a good opportunity for you. Look good and maybe instead of saying something like "you look good tonight" wait until the wedding and spot some good looking woman in the crowd and say something like "I need to stay close to you tonight that blond over there keeps checking you out" These are just my thoughts they may help may not. Husband
And if I claim to be a wise man, well It surely means that I don't know