My W called after work as she always does to talk to our son. We had talked a bit last week about starting to go to the gym together again like we were before we S. She asked me if I would like to go today and I told he I would like to go, but I have other plans, if we could go tomorrow that would be better for me. She said that would be good, she was a little tired after her Monday anyway. She said well I will go over to (friends) house then, is it ok if I take (son) so he can play. I said that would be great. That way I can get done what I need to this afternoon.
I had gone to the floral store today to get her a simple sunflower arrangement (her favorite) to give to her when I give her the letter. I was planning on giving it to her when I picked up our S from her later. But, when she got to our house she came in to use the bathroom, so I decided to give them to her now. I told her “Here I have something’s for you” (her mail, the flowers and the letter). Her face lit up. She said with a very excited tone "Flowers for me, why?" I replied “Because you deserve them for just being you.” To which she replied "They are so beautiful and they are sunflower my favorite. But, I do not deserve them." I said "But, of course you do." I told her that I was heading out for a couple of hours to take care of something’s and that I would call when I was heading back home to pick up S. She said that sounds great, call me. And she then again thanked me for the flowers. As she was heading out the door she commented to our son "See my beautiful flowers, aren't they so pretty." Made me feel good.
“Do you want to be RIGHT or want to be LOVED” “You have to have a life to share a life with someone” “When you stop resisting, you start learning”
