Get me on a smoother ride........Need Advice

[SueS]

Husband - Cadesmom & Have Faith-

Thanks so much for the responses. So let me get this straight. I shouldn't let him know that I that I know? You're saying that it will just push it on further? I hate the thought of it lasting any longer.

As I said, we have a wedding to attend this weekend & our D will be with my parents. I thought about some of the things that Husband mentioned.....whip cream....etc. I wondered if that would get anything going.

I'm just not sure how to go about finding out what he's getting out of the EA that he's not getting from me. My H has never been a very secure guy so having his ego stroked is a big deal for him. I tell him that he looks nice & give him compliments, but I don't think it means as much from me. I know it's flattering to all of us to get compliments, especially when it's coming from a stranger.

Should I be that happy person who gives little pats, kisses & hugs here and there? I don't want to push him away, but I don't want to stop the affection I give either.

Well, D is done with supper and H will be home soon.

Thanks for the support.