But, Dom, he really told me to make him work for me. I never did that. EVER. When I said that once he moved out that things would be different, he would have to date and court me he said "Good. Stick to that."
When I pointed out our sex life was pretty dang good he said "Oh, I *know* it is. I have never thought it wasn't!"
Plus the comment that he had made that "some women would say "you better do (or not do) XYZ, if you want to date me."
It seems like all I would be doing is giving him his cake on a silver platter. He's left me. He is going out acting single. He doesn't even have to date me. And then I deliver myself to him wrapped in saran wrap?! (so to speak )
He didn't like it that I grabbed his butt last week; he didn't want me to be physical with him. (He kept his distance-to a degree. Before, he would be all over me when we went out. This time he was reserved. Treated me like a warm friend.)
Oh yeah, and then there was the time that he said he thought that the sex was confusing me. Making me think there was more of a chance for us then there is.
Plus, I have already stated that I am not a booty call, rules about dating etc.
----- Okay- I just remembered that there is a wedding on Friday for a family friend's daughter. We had originally planned to go together. It is up on my fridge calendar. (In case he doesn't remember, he will more than likely see it.)
Do I bring it up and ask him to go as my "+ one"? Or do I just wait to see if he will a)remember and b)ask to go with me>
Me-43 H-46 M 12 yrs 7/09 T 15 2 grown kids bomb 7/05/07 H moved out 8/04/07 11/22/09 told him I quit;let's get ball rolling Mid Dec- he isn't sure he wants D End 2/2010-Starting to consider piecing
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