I get it. And even if I didn't, who cares? I was just wondering if *you* knew! It can be hard to keep sight of through all this.
I just had a good conversation with my DB counselor. She told me I'm a natural DBer. Ha! Who knew I had such gifts? Who knew I'd ever need them?!
And I'm feeling pretty solid about the I-don't-have-to-talk-to-DH-about-my-feelings stuff. Not going to, not now, anyway. He's gone gone gone in his mind. We're getting along pretty well today. He's called twice (I answered once) and told me some big stuff that's going on at work (which involves pay, so me). And it's weirdly nice to hear him say, "And I'll tell them I'll discuss it with my wife." Wow. I'm not reading a damn thing into it, but it was nice to hear him say "my wife."
By the way, the counselor answered my question about not answering the phone and getting a life. She said it's not about not being available or not but being unpredictable. She said since he said he's getting used to me not picking up, pick up once in a while. So I get it. Now I just have to do it. And I just got the chance, and a nice chat to boot.
