Also, the excitement, drama, etc. that comes w/ a forbidden EA is addicting I think. After we've been married for so long, that initial excitement of a new romance is no longer there. That is probably what they are both getting out of it. The skipping heartbeat when the phone rings and it's the other person, that feeling you get in your stomach, etc.
I agree Cades, But this "excitement" can be re established if both partys are willing.sneaking off for the weekend, body paints, whip cream. ok i have to stop now.
BTW Cades no contact with my OP. I think she finely gave up.
Husband
And if I claim to be a wise man, well It surely means that I don't know