But there was nothing going on last year... (#2)

[Dr LOve]

Cali,

I know how you feel. I feel my W sometimes has not really an anger but resentment (?) for not being happy and she can't blame herself so she blames me. Now she has not said this but this is what I feel sometimes.
Think about it. Have you done anything for your husband to be angry with you about? If not then why would you "take away some of the anger he is holding against Me.:
Our spouses have problems. We need to help them but all we can do is help. We can take part of the blame but they MUST take part also. This is with the R NOT THE AFFAIR. THE AFFAIR is ALL their choice.
I am just as confused as the rest of you. It's interesting that the movie "the last kiss" the husband of one of the couples in the movie who's wife had an affair was a physiatrist. So even experts in human physiology have problems in their own siches.
Sorry for being on here so much today but I’m bored. I feel sooo lazy I am not supposed to do anything for another week. Cabin fever. I am going to the movies with W and son Tuesday.
Husband