I just got a call from an agent wanting feedback on a house I viewed last week. I checked it out for myself, knowing that I wasn't really prepared to buy. And I made sure it was vacant.

When I gave her the feedback I said "This was theorectically for myself, but I am not at the point where I am actually ready to buy. I just wanted to know that if it came down to it, I would have choices available to me." And she laughed and said she understood-- that I just wanted to see what was 'out there' and if it would be acceptable.

THAT is EXACTLY how I would view dating right now. I don't want to move from my current house; but if I am forced to, I want to know that I will have acceptable choices available to me. \:\)

Me-43
H-46
M 12 yrs 7/09
T 15
2 grown kids
bomb 7/05/07
H moved out 8/04/07
11/22/09 told him I quit;let's get ball rolling
Mid Dec- he isn't sure he wants D
End 2/2010-Starting to consider piecing