Did you do anything like I suggested, about doing a 180 on your sex life? is it that he usually is aggresive/initiates I'm thinking he is.?
To a degree. It's really easy for me to have my way with him if I want. I just need to do my nails and be flirty. In the past, if I am too agressive, or say that *I* am going to want something, all of a sudden he's tired.
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Please answer the above, and then tell me why you wont try the following:
To cut to the chase. When I was was 'flirty' and grabbed his butt on the Monday at the bar, that was sort of when the conversation drifted towards HIM saying "we need to talk" and that he doesn't want to be "friends with benefits."
I don't think me being aggressive with him would be well received. He already quasi-rejected me a week ago. Besides, he hasn't dated or courted me; no nookie for him!
Me-43 H-46 M 12 yrs 7/09 T 15 2 grown kids bomb 7/05/07 H moved out 8/04/07 11/22/09 told him I quit;let's get ball rolling Mid Dec- he isn't sure he wants D End 2/2010-Starting to consider piecing
