Trying to set those goals!

[Trixi]

This was after he was divorced the first time, yes?

Yes, by a long time.

He recently referenced when I did that and he said that he thought to himself "Hmm. Well, SHE's sure of herself." IOW, he liked it.

He left you at home, not because you "couldnt appeal to other men". He left you at home, because it made HIM look bad.

Okay, I can see the distinction.

You thought you would play hard to get.. and it didnt work. He doesnt work like that.

I think it did work. He did end up calling for a booty call. (Right or wrong, that's what he did.)

I'm going to submit this right away as I think it may influence your thoughts.