Trying to set those goals!

[Dom R]

Okay, now listen, Agent99:

you have silently avoided replying to all my prior posts on this subject directly. you have to reply to this one :P

Did you do anything like I suggested, about doing a 180 on your sex life? is it that he usually is aggresive/initiates?
I'm thinking he is.

Please answer the above, and then tell me why you wont try the following:


Presuming that you know where his apartment is, try the following:

Get a lightweight but semi-long coat (or equivalent). Put it on, over something truely slutty
turn up at his apartment one night, and ask to come in for a few minutes, because you'd "like him to help you with something".

Get him to show you around a bit, and give you a tour.
When he gets to the bedroom, then tell him about what you need from him.

grin wickedly at him, tell him, "I'm horney. I wanna F---", drop the coat, and grab him!

Dont take no for an answer. back him up against the bed, stick your hand down his pants, do whatever you have to, to get him "ready", and on his back (either the floor or the bed, whatever works )
"anything" except asking him that is.
Tell him to lay down. Push him down. Anything but "ask". You're in control this time: dont "ask".

(you might have to take your time once you get him on his back. some men can initially be too scared to be "ready" if they are surprised like this. but trust me... give him a few minutes of non-threatning "attention", and he'll get over it just fine )

Then have your fun.. for YOUR enjoyment... and when you're done, feel free to stop, say "thanks, tiger", wink at him, and leave.

If your feeling generous, I suppose you might help him a bit afterwards. thats up to you.

Well, Agent... there's your mission. Do you accept?

PS: if he wont have you at his apartment, then tell him you need his help with something at your house. Dont tell him what it is until he gets there, he "just has to come look". Be "firm" in telling him that. a "no-nonsense" kinda tone.
Similarly, when he gets there, "it's in the bedroom, take a look for yourself".
Then give him an eyefull


PPS: I saw your followup post. i think it makes it even better for you to follow this