Is this just for the guys or can the girls join in. Here's my list

I enjoy my job
I enjoy being with my friends
I enjoy being with my children
I have become more differentiated from my H so now I am not brought down by his bad moods and we enjoy some QT and PT together
I have a roof over my head and food on the table
I have found a new outlet for my creativity
I'm happy with the way my body is

Last week when I was feeling hyper horny I looked across the restaurant table at my H and I was just about to come out with "I love you" when I realised I meant me.

Fran

if we can be sufficient to ourselves, we need fear no entangling webs
Erica Jong