Get me on a smoother ride........Need Advice

[SueS]

Husband- I'm sorry that your W tried to find happiness elsewhere. I wasn't thinking that way at all. I had gotten so down on myself that I just couldn't imagine feeling comfortable with anyone. Once things would start, I felt good and I didn't think about how I looked, but it took my poor H a lot of convincing to even get me to respond. I know my H didn't say it to be cruel, but he told me that he liked the way I looked when we lived in CA. When we lived there, my hair was long with hightlights. I was 30-35 lbs lighter and just felt great. I've shed about 15 of those pounds and am determined to get rid of the rest. But, like I said, lately things had....actually have been great that way.

I would love for my H to do the walking/jogging thing with me. With our daughter and our different schedules, we just can't do it. Speaking of schedules, that's one thing that keeps my H & OW in touch. They used to work together.....5-11:30 pm. He switched departments (Thank goodness), but she's up late on her nights that she works. 3 days a week he works until 9:00 pm, so he still stays up late. I think she calls him or he calls her when the families are already in dreamland!