Sorry to hear that, but I understand. When I joined this forum the clock was ticking for me too and my husband was doing everything possible to push the D through as quickly as possible. I did whatever I could to slooooow it down (Like being too busy GALing, i.e. getting my nails done, getting my hair done, eyebrows waxed, etc... to fill out paperwork! ).
Your state must be really quick with this. Fortunately here in California most D's (even easy ones) seem to take 6 months to a year. My husband was counting on 4 to 6 months while I planned on dragging the thing out for at least 2 years!!!
I think it's a shame courts allow divorces to go through so quickly. {{{hugs}}}} to you.
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