What I am more concerned about right now is him falling back into a depression mode - I don't think I could deal with that again
He reduced his meds a couple of months ago, with the approval of his GP, but I find there are little things that resemble him slipping back (i.e. sleeping more). Now, maybe I am just paranoid, but he used to sleep ALL the time when he was depressed. However, he does have a job where he doesn't get much continuous sleep so uses that as his "out" when he wants to lay down. Now, taking a nap here and there is one thing but yesterday he laid down for 2½ hours in the morning and another 2 in the afternoon - seems rather excessive to me.
However, if I say anything I get the perverbial "I don't get much sleep during the week and I am just catching up" which might have some merit but he just seems to be doing it more lately
I guess I need to broach this subject again because that's the last thing I need and he is unable to recognize it in himself (and he told the doc he would get ME to monitor him)
Heywyre
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