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In those marriages where there was definately an affair, I've read online various peoples' accounts of how they had a revenge affair.


I really TRULY have no desire to have an affair.

I want to upset his comfort level.

Me-43
H-46
M 12 yrs 7/09
T 15
2 grown kids
bomb 7/05/07
H moved out 8/04/07
11/22/09 told him I quit;let's get ball rolling
Mid Dec- he isn't sure he wants D
End 2/2010-Starting to consider piecing