Trying to set those goals!

[Trixi]

PS: when he gets horney enough, he'll probably want to try to have sex with you again, whether that "leads you on", or not.
he changes his mind a lot, remember? and an top of that, testosterone has a very powerful effect on a man's.. "mind".
So dont think that is completely out of the question for your future.
IF, you choose to make potential together time available to him, that is.

Yes, he does change his mind a lot. There is no WAY I would sleep with him now. I don't care how much I want him, there is just NO way I would be that vulnerable again.

And, of course, I DO hope that he comes onto me again; just so that I know that part of his feelings still exists for me. And that maybe during his quiet times he can reflect back that it wasn't THAT bad and that we have things to build upon. We coulda made it work.