I filed the divorce to give my with peace of mind about our son. She was afraid that if we got separated that I would keep her from seeing him. I work from home, I am the primary caregiver and bread winner. SO, she was scared and convinced that if we separated she would never see him. As much as I told her and tried to prove to her that I would never keep him from seeing her and that I know how important she is to his life, she just did not believe me. So, I filed for the D and gave her all of her free time, when she is not working, for her visitation time with him. As soon as we signed the papers she started to believe or at least she knew I could not keep him from her, because the courts would not allow it.
“Do you want to be RIGHT or want to be LOVED” “You have to have a life to share a life with someone” “When you stop resisting, you start learning”