i know it's tempting to think like that... but we both know that's not what marriage is about, dont we? It isnt "to love honor and cherish... until they act like a schmuck".
you reminded me of something.. which doubly validates what I was saying: you ARE physically attractive to your husband. you already KNOW you are: he has said so.
So it's not about that. Rather, I think that you're feeling rejected, and you want to be wanted by someone. it's not about "feeling attractive". you want to feel loved and wanted. I dont blame you but it wouldnt be right to go looking for that from another man, would it?
Well, *technically* I suppose not. *sigh* They don't have to love me... Just think I'm cute and funny.
He's been going out and flirting for a long time (even when we were together). What's good for the gander.....
yeah, yeah, yeah, I am in retaliation mode. It hurts so much for him to be going and doing the things *I* suggested withOUT me. It's doubly rejecting. One-it's without me and two-the ideas were good enough to do, but not IF it included me. Make sense?
Me-43 H-46 M 12 yrs 7/09 T 15 2 grown kids bomb 7/05/07 H moved out 8/04/07 11/22/09 told him I quit;let's get ball rolling Mid Dec- he isn't sure he wants D End 2/2010-Starting to consider piecing
