Originally Posted By: SueS

Did you get back to the place where you were more attracted to your W (not just physically, but emotionally....)? Did you get back to a place where you saw that happy person again? What kinds of things did you and your W talk about to get you back on track. I hate sitting there in silence, but I don't want to just do a ......."nice weather we're having"....kind of thing.


My W decided to have an affair to try to find happiness. She went to her x bf of 18 years ago and he used her. She still does not see this. He is married and lives out of state. She has gained over 70 pounds since they dated he was in no was attracted to her physically it was just sex to him. I am working on opening communication with my W. We are not there yet.

Originally Posted By: SueS

So I'm hoping that gives us some quality time together. I'd love to find a new dress for the wedding too....knock him off his feet!



The wedding. This is a great start. The jogging and walks sound great. Have you asked your H if he wanted to join you? Just a thought.

Husband


And if I claim to be a wise man, well
It surely means that I don't know