Get me on a smoother ride........Need Advice

[SueS]

Husband- Thank you for your response. I am trying to work on me. The thing is though, that I'd started to feel better about myself and our connection had seemed to have gotten stronger before this happened. I started walking/jogging in the morning and have been a lot happier lately.

Did you get back to the place where you were more attracted to your W (not just physically, but emotionally....)? Did you get back to a place where you saw that happy person again? What kinds of things did you and your W talk about to get you back on track. I hate sitting there in silence, but I don't want to just do a ......."nice weather we're having"....kind of thing.

My H emailed me today and was happy about some deals he's been getting done at work. I've been very supportive of him at work, as I know it's a large part of his identity. I called him back instead of emailing so I could hear his voice.

We do have a wedding that we're going to this Friday (just the two of us). My parents are coming in town to watch our daughter, so I'm hoping that gives us some quality time together. I'd love to find a new dress for the wedding too....knock him off his feet!