I don't post replies a lot as all of you seem so much better at it than me but I couldn't resist and I am trying to get more involved here as I think it will help me as well as hopefully support some of you. First - I think you should be attractive for you. And if you feel good about who you are inside and out then you will attract the right ones - whomever they may be. and no doubt some of the wrongs ones ;-). And about tonight - I agree with Dom - find some great plans fast and look hot when he arrives. A quick hi, how are you, let him get a whiff of your perfume and then you leave! And then go do something for you. take care of you.