i think i fall in the 'don't invite him' camp; if the spirit moves you in a few more weeks, maybe you can invite him to do something with you and S on your birthday (are we talking the big 5-0??)
And fwiw, it wouldn't surprise me if H is just laughing a little ruefully at where he finds himself at the moment...because i think that some combination of what you've said below is probably spot on the mark...
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Quote: I'm guessing that he thought he was through with me 4 months ago, is/was in the "in love" stage w/ OW, & is now having doubts. It could be that all my changes & the way I've responded have thrown him off. Or maybe the A is starting to come out of the "perfect" stage. Don't know.
You, my exotic Sunny, have thrown him for a loop, and if he has the least bit of self-awareness, he's starting to realize the irony of this sitch...
