My W feels like she told me. I can;t say for sure, But I do not remeber her actually saying I am unhappy. She asked if I thought counseling would work. She asked if I wanted to do diff things together. She always asked me, but never told me what she wanted. Never said, I would like us to go to counseling. I honestly do not know if it would have mattered. I was keeping everything in, and wasn't trying to understand the divide between us. My hope is all but gone. Just a sliver for now. She is not one to change her mind - right or wrong. I have opportunity to interact with her, probably more so than the initial 30 day separation. I can only hope that she will like what hse sees as I work on making myself happy without her. It's so difficult on days like today when I can't get my mind off of her. Good times, bad times, what ifs. Why can't she just take this opportunity with me?
Me 32 WAW 30 D Bomb 7/9 Separated 7/15 Reiterated bomb 8/12 PA 8/21 http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubb...rue#Post1198643
