Dear Prodigal - thanks for being willing to give people a look inside the head of a "cheater"...And for your candor in admitting your mistake. My specific question is on any potential phrase that can be used to make a spouse aware of what is at stake in the situation...I mean: I hear constantly from my spouse "I don't know what to do", "it's a conundrum", "I just can't decided" and countless other weenie comments that keep her from taking any responsibilty for our future. Did you babble like that?
I have a shovel and I'm not afraid to use it. Stubby
