thats how it starts.
thats not how it usually ends.


Why do you CARE if you're still attractive? Who are you looking to attract, and why?

isnt the only person you should care about being attractive to, your husband?

If you're trying to "attract" other men.. that's a problem right there, i'd say.

yeah, I know what you're saying.. the whole female "am i attractive?" thing.. its a socially reinforced attitude.. but it's a very destructive, harmful attitude for a married woman to accept in herself, other than "am I attractive to MY HUSBAND?"

wouldnt you agree?

Last edited by Dom R; 08/20/07 07:08 PM.
My current status: june 2006. Wife ran out and filed D.
Finalized Jan 11, 2010, after 12.5 years M.
3 wonderful sons caught in the middle