Not so Shocked 4

[nickyf]

Hi everyone

Had a great weekend , went shopping on saturday and then went out for a drink with some friends Saturday night, thankfully didn't drink too much so no hang over for me the next day .

Husband had D3 at the weekend and took her to his mums, OW did not go and so D3 got to spend some alone time with her Daddy for once .

However MIL phoned me today, she told me that my husband went out with his sister and her boyfriend on Saturday night and my husband was paraletic, he came in about 1am very drunk. She also told me that one of his sisters friends was out, who happens to be quite a bit older than my husband, overweight, not very attractive and known for being a slapper, apparently my husband was all over this woman and his sister had to pull him to one side and tell him. It amazes me that just over a year ago my husband was not attracted to overweight women at all, especially women who flauted themselves. He always said that he liked a woman to be sophisticated and by the sounds of it this woman was the opposite. I am begining to feel that i really don't know my husband anymore, his morals and beliefs just seem to have just vanished.

It is obvious to me that my husbands feelings for OW are superficial, even if he does not realise it yet. He is giving up the best thing that ever happenned to him, which is D3 and i but he is just too blind to see it.

MIL telling me this today has just confimed that my husband is still so deep in replay. I really thought these past few weeks that he was moving forward in the tunnel because he seemed to be trying to sort himself out but i guess he has just taken a great leap back.

Lately i have found myself thinking that it would be nice to have someone to share my day with, someone to buy me flowers, someone to be romantic with me, instead of being one of the probably many women that my husband flirts with, i deserve to be treated with more respect. Through out all this i have tried to treat my husband with unconditional love and respect, it is unfortunate that he is so wrapped up in himself that he can't do the same.

Hope evryone is ok

Nicky